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Islamic Funeral Etiquette, Traditions, Rites and More

In Islam, death marks the beginning of the journey to the afterlife. A person’s final destination depends on how closely they followed the teachings of the Qur’an and the Sunnah—the way of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). Those who lived a life of faith and righteousness are promised Paradise, while those who turned away will be distanced from the mercy and blessings of Allah. Hence, Islamic funerals are held to comfort the grieving and to pray to Allah, asking for mercy and forgiveness for the deceased.

In Islam, it is essential that the deceased be buried as soon as possible after death. Therefore, the funeral home should be contacted immediately. The body will be transported to the funeral home, where it will be washed (Ghusl) and shrouded (Kafan) in a simple white cloth by family members or volunteers. The hands of the deceased are positioned as if in prayer. After this, the body is taken to the mosque for the Janazah (funeral) prayer and then transported to the cemetery for burial.

The funeral service (Salat al-Janazah) is usually held outside the mosque, in areas such as a prayer hall, courtyard, or community square, allowing space for the congregation to gather. Both the body and the attendees are positioned facing Qibla (Mecca), the spiritual center of Islam. The funeral prayer (Salat al-Janazah) is led by the Imam. Attendees typically stand in at least three rows: men in the front, followed by children, and women in the back. Following the prayer, the body is transported in a quiet procession to the burial site. An important burial tradition is for each person present to throw three handfuls of earth into the grave.

Since Muslims believe there will be a physical resurrection of the body on Judgement Day, the faith prohibits cremation. Similarly, autopsies are strongly discouraged, since they delay burial and are considered a desecration of the body. Also, Muslims prefer not to move the body away from the site of death, making an autopsy even more unsettling for them. Embalming, considered yet another desecration of the body, is performed only if required by law.

Finally, tradition dictates that flowers are to be sent to the family’s home after the burial of the deceased. There is a 40-day mourning period, during which time not only flowers but also food is appreciated.

Mourners at an Islamic funeral may express grief, but only within certain standards of decorum. Loud wailing, for example, is not permitted. Neither are other outward signs of extreme emotion, such as ripping of clothes, thrashing about, sacrilegious speech, and self-injury. Crying is permitted.

Traditional Muslim funeral etiquette forbids mourners from taking pictures or in any other way recording any part of the funeral prayer service.

After the prayer service and the burial, mourners may gather at the home of the immediate family. This is when it is appropriate to express your condolences to the family and support them in their grief. Plan to stay the entire day. Socializing is believed to help the family cope with their loss.

Widows will customarily observe a 40-day of mourning or even longer time of mourning. Whatever the time frame, it’s important that the community visits and offers to help in any way they can.

An Islamic funeral is considered a community event. Muslims believe a funeral to be a very spiritual occasion. Everyone in attendance participates in group prayers, in which mourners pray that Allah will have mercy on not only the deceased but also on all deceased Muslims.

Islamic funerals are to help mourners cope with their grief, but are also meant to offer hope for a good afterlife for the deceased. 

Family members of the dying person and their most pious friends should be present at their side to help turn the final thoughts to Allah, reminding him or her of all the good deeds they did, about Allah’s mercy, and Allah’s favors. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “Let no Muslim die except expecting and hoping the best from Allah” (Muslim).

Family members and friends can advise the dying person very gently (encouragement without insistence) to say the shahada: “La Illaha illallah”, which means there is no God but Allah, in a very kind and sincere manner as these may be their last words. Abu Saeed Al-Khuduri reported that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “Help Muslims who are dying to say “La Illaha illallah” (Muslim).

Family members should make Dua (supplication) to Allah to help make the final moments easy, and to forgive them.

Immediately after the death has occurred and it has been verified, close the eyes of the deceased eyes; the mouth and jaws are held gently with broad bands or pieces of cloth so that they do not remain wide open; the legs should be held in the same way. The body should be covered, and must always remain covered, preferably with a white sheet of cloth.

Invoke Allah and say: “Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un” (To Allah we belong and to Him is our return).

Crying with no wailing is permitted. The prophet (pbuh) wept on the death of his son, Ibrahim and said: “The eyes shed tears and the heart feels pain, but we utter only what pleases our Lord. O Ibrahim! We are aggrieved at your demise.”

Contact Al Firdous Funeral Servcies for funeral arrangements without delay; Relatives and friends should be notified. The body must not be kept waiting unnecessarily. Immediate family and friends are to prepare food for the bereaved family for three days

When you contact the funeral representative to seek advice, arrange for paper work and cemetery plot, please have the following information available:

Determine if the dying person has any preferences for people who will carry out the Ghusl (washing) and Kafan (burial cloth). If there is none, then the next of male kin to males, and next of female kin to females should be available to perform the Ghusl.

Also when you talk to the funeral director, please prepare the following information for the dying person to facilitate the process and help in finalizing the paperwork:

⦁ Current location of Deceased
⦁ Social Security Number
⦁ Address
⦁ Date of Birth
⦁ Date and Time of Death
⦁ Phone Number
⦁ eMail

It typically takes about 3 to 6 hours to make all the arrangements at a minimum (Open/Close the grave, arrange the transportation, set prayer area). As such, a person can be buried on the same day if the death occurred prior to 8 AM. If the death occurred after that time, the arrangements will be typically made for burial the next day.

Typically the Janaza prayer is performed right after the Dhuhr prayer (1:30 PM). On Friday’s Janaza prayer is always after 2nd Juma prayer at Masjid Yusuf (ICR). The Ghusl is typically performed before the Janaza prayers (around 9 AM or 11 Noon).